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This is a fantastic video series if your looking for PUA Training information. If you find yourself not able to talk to that beautiful girl you've had a crush on for years or you just don't know what to say to that woman you've just made eye contact with, this is for you.
Also, I recommend men who think they are good with women to check this out. David Deangelo's dating videos have been set up to give you maximum advice in the shortest amount of time and this advanced dating programme works well with that.
Don't let it scare you because it says "advanced dating" it is a basic course of understanding, you don't need to be advanced in dating to watch and understand these videos, David Deangelo does recommend you read his book first. But don't worry if you haven't read his book, you can still enjoy these videos.
David Deangelo – Advanced Series
CD 1
Attraction isn’t a choice
- If a woman isn’t attracted to you there is nothing you can do to convince her otherwise
- If she is attracted to you there is nothing she can do to not be attracted to you – no amount of logic
- When two people meet, they start communicating
- Words are 7% of communication, body language is 93%
What is attraction?
- “Attraction is nature’s way of taking over our bodies just long enough to mate with another person with good genes”
- Attraction process is basically looking for if you can make good offspring that will survive. Called “Sexy sons and daughters”
Seduction
- Seduction is basically tricking someone
Language of Attraction
- Women are 10x times better at reading people than men
- “Maintain Control”
What men want
Turing fear into questions
Top 3 fears or frustrations: - Turn all your fears/frustrations in to “how” questions:
- Humiliation : How can I talk with no concern of humiliation?
- Rejection : How can I talk and accept rejection as learning?
- Being Used : How can I learn to make sure I’m in control?
CD 2
Understanding the science
- Sex is a gene mixing mechanism
- Sperm are created primarily to fight other sperm
3 Parts of the Brain
- Physical – Reptile
- Emotional – Mammal
- Logical – Thinking
CD 3
Power Vs Technique
Getting rid of limiting Beliefs
- They will think I’m ugly or unattractive
- I will seem boring because i won’t know what to say
- I’ll be too nervous to attempt it in the first place
- They won’t care of my physical appearance
- I’ll know what to say because they will be relaxed
- I’m nervous of rejection but not afraid to change
Q&A around limiting Beliefs
- Really smart guys always think their right and can convince other people that their right even though their wrong. So you tend to convince yourself more that you can’t do something. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING.
- Work at getting over your intelligence
Life isn’t fair..... And that’s great news
- I’m willing to do this and get it handled. WHAT EVER IT TAKES.
- Once you get to this frame of mind, nothing will stop you.
Luck is choice
- You are the only one who cares about your success.
Whose reality is it?
- “You are in my reality and you are a guest.”
CD 4
Beliefs of men who are successful
- I’m a cause not an effect
- I impact people, people don’t impact me
- I’m in control, outside events don’t destabilise me
- Don’t need anything
- Comfortable around women – Get female Friends
- I don’t tolerate disrespect of my time
- I could, but I won’t
Self image exercises for Success
How do you make someone want something?
- You can make someone want something by being rare and in limited stock
- Pussification!
Psychological Learning
- Do not lean towards a person. Don’t lean in – Shows neediness
CD 5
Metaphors for keeping Attraction
- Don’t out all importance in one thing
- Don’t worry
Communicating to that other part
- “If nothing else you’ll make a nice friend”
- “You don’t know men very well do you?”
- Whatever she complains about say she does it too
Always communicate you are the selector
- Use tonality in your voice
- Add bass to your voice
Acronyms of Attraction
- More thrill seeking you are generally you get more partners
Bad boys on film
- “*smile* that’s cute. Got anything better?”
Projecting beliefs with appearance
- When a girl tests me, i think it’s cute
- When a girl is kissing, pull back
“She wants me”
- “I don’t think this relationship is going to work”
The reality of attractive women
- Humans make 30 difference decisions in the first 30 seconds
- Attractiveness is judged in the first 0.7 of a second
Everything you do either lowers or amplifies
- Confidence = Attraction
- Attraction is an emotion
CD 6
Female Personality Types
- Guy chick, ding bat, teenie, party chick, controller, accountant type, drama queen, large and ugly and proud, users, gold diggers, emotional sucker fish, natural hippy chicks, femnazi, Christian, romantic
- Guy Chick - Extreme sports and can kick your ass.
- Ding Bat - Forgetful, slow.
- Teenie - Teenager
- Party Girl - Good times and partying, no relationships
- Controller - Loves to control everything
- Accountant - Quiet, introvert, not very many social skills
- Drama Queen - Lies allot and creates mess
- Large and Ugly -....
- Users - Scammers
- Gold Diggers - After the money
- Emotional - Brings their problems to you so they feel better by dumping them on you
- Hippy Chicks - Interesting, do anything, accepting
- Femnazi - Dominant, man haters
- Christian - Programmed to be “normal”
- Romantic - Loves allot and falls in love quickly
- Cool Chick - Understand all the social scenes
Clearing fear and anxiety
- “Is it me or are you the most unhappiest person in the world”
Dog Training for Humans
- “I’m the kissing bandit, you must kiss me before you can pass”
Go meet women where there is allot of them
- If a woman makes a request always say NO!
- Never answer a woman with a straight answer unless it’s NO
Pick-up Lines
- 10 Rule - 1 out of 10 will always be better than the other 9
- Avoid fast movement and any other nervous activities
Mental Rehearsal
- Choose approach and problem and responses you need
- “Great I’ll be friends with you, I’m sure you got allot of hot friends you’re going to introduce me too”
How to have a woman talk to you?
- “Secretly all women do it”
Training wheels for meeting women
- “Interesting your writing says allot about you”
- Straight writing – Organised Person
- Soft Skin – Sensitive Person
- Hard Skin – Stronger Person
- Bend Hand Far Back – Flexible Person
- Fleshy Part by thumb – Feel for tension
- Won’t bend back – Tension
CD 7
Favourite Openers
- “I bet every drunk guy and his 9 friends have been bothering you, but I just wanted to say your fantastically beautiful and I wanted to find out what you’re like”
- Can i ask you a question?
- “You don’t say your age on your profile are you over 40?”
- Ask a woman’s opinion on something
- “Hi, i wanted a female perspective on if you think men understand what women want and need?”
Tips for the initial conversation
- Don’t say the same answer twice
- “You are really beautiful”
- Think of a funny/cocky answer to all questions
- “Hi ”
- Suspense = High Energy
Creating Scenarios and planning Dialogs
- “...Well you got to be fast, because i hear their going to make me leave soon. Seems the other guys are complaining that they haven’t got a chance.”
Date Requests
- Don’t call the same day
- “Cancel them, I’m more important than anything your doing” – If they say they can’t their busy.
Romance and Chivalry
- Walk on the outside of the curb – to prevent a car from hitting her. ”In case a car jumps the curb, I’m here instead of you.”
- Don’t give what she asks for
How to create an obsession?
- Have a reward and punishment and have them only work some of the time.
CD 8
Following common social courtesy is Bullshit
- Men act like they need an attractive woman’s approval
- To get approval you must not need it in the first place and make sure she knows it
- Never give a woman a direct answer unless it’s “No”
- If she complains about something say “Glad you like it”
- Never be predictable
Setting up a relationship correctly
- Don’t settle for second class behaviour
- Have an attitude to walk away from anything
- Give her a cute nickname
- Ask her to scale things like 1 – 10 how do you feel.
Cocky and Funny
- “Nice shirt... you buy that new?”
Examples of cocky and funny
- “I could marry a woman like you... Yea I’d divorce you a week later and take half your money.”
- “Well, aren’t you going to open the door for me?”
The identity of cock and funny
- If it goes wrong : “*Laugh* ... isn’t that cute”
Being alone with her
- Never mention or complain about being single, lonely or have bad luck
- Say you’re a virgin
- Don’t tell her what you’re feeling and don’t ask her what she’s feeling
CD 9
Kiss Test
- Two steps forward, one step back
End of the Date
- Always be busy, end everything first
Interview with Eric
- I’m chicken soup for the hole
- I’m the missing part in a woman. I can give her a gift
Interview with Eric Cont.
- Looking at my future ex-girlfriend right there
- She can’t reject me because she’s only human
Interview with Rick
- No good deed goes unpunished
- More you do with them, less they do for you
- All women are bi-sexual
CD 10
Interview with Rick Cont.
- Attitude of Just going through the world saying “Hi”
- Be completely comfortable with what you do. If you believe and have a more dominant belief system you will win against not so strong belief systems
Relationship Expectations
- Be a man not a girl-friend
The Wuss Cure
- If she says “Why don’t we go here?” you say “Why don’t you pay?”
Meeting Women Online
- Can i ask you a question?
- Can I ask you for help?
- Can you help me?
- Call her a brat and bratty at the beginning
- Accuse her of being a man or disgusting, too old for me
- Tell her to type faster in all caps
- Make fun of her typing
Interview with Rick
- 1 and 0. 1 she is good enough for me and 0 she isn’t
- If they ask “How old are you?” say “Why you want someone to buy you beer?”
- Rule One: Never take a heavy woman to dinner
CD 11
Reflections on your personal Life
- “Welcome to my reality”
- Everything entailed in your reality as far as knowing yourself before you ask anyone else to come into your reality.
- “Only you can invite people into your reality”
You can get the videos directly from David Deangelo at www.doubleyourdating.com.
The Orginal
This video series is currently not available through Amazon. Instead, here are some books which deserve reading which are related to Deangelo's Advanced Series.
Craig is a 22-year-old student currently studying psychology at Bournemouth University. He runs a self improvement blog and community filled with useful advice. His main aim is to help people exceed their expectations and reach their true potential.
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