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[Audio] David Deangelo - Mastery Series
Written by Craig   
Sunday, 16 September 2007 21:56
This video series is the next step up from the advanced series which is recommended to be read before reading or watching Mastery.

This programme is the best way to master dating by far.  It is greatly indepth and gives you more than just dating/attracting women knowledge but also the outline meaning on how to be a man.

For PUA Training summaries this is by far the most information packed.  I'm certain you will enjoy delving into all the most useful information that's available.

This program is the daddy of dating advice condenced into 20 hours of pure theories, facts, recommendations, advice and anything else you'll need to be successful with women.

 

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David Deangelo – Mastery Series


CD 1



Welcome

  • Best thing to learn this program is to spend 90 days implementing all information and review 3 times

Into Mastery
  • Look at everything as a highly complex mating ritual

Attraction isn’t a choice
  • Mastery is when you take control, from hoping and wishing to realise.
  • Accept you are not going to like what it’s going to take to get to mastery.

Five Steps to Personal Evaluation
  • Imitate the best until you are getting consistent results
  • Learn how to make finer and finer distinctions until you can see
  • Learn to assign higher and larger values to everything
  • Learn to create elements of great ideas and combine them and improve on them
  • Innovate – Own ideas
  • Expertise + Experience + access to advice + mentors = Luck

Masters

  • Masters make it look effortless
  • Do not compare yourself to others

Two ways of winning
  • Improve the quality of life – Be very selfish and make your life great.

Flow (In the Zone)
  • Psychology of optimal experience
  • Low Skill – High Challenge = Anxiety
  • High Skill – Low Challenge = Boredom

Journey to Mastery

  • Choose what you want for yourself in this area – Get your ethics under control
  • Choose what you will do and what you want in life
  • Decide upon and describe what you want in life
  • Hesitation – You’re going to realise it’s hard and doubt it’s possibility
  • Gather your team of support
  • Warriors phase – Get out there and do it
  • Something must die for something to live

Facing Ultimate Fear
  • Keeping what you want is far more difficult than getting what you want

Power of centre
  • Finding out who you are and how you fit into the world.  Think about if you could start again

Mental Centring
  • Accept everything as it is



CD 2



Introduction to her Universe
  • A woman can feel integrity

The dark Side

  • If he’s clear about his body then that relaxes the woman’s body

Projection
  • Most of the things we see are programmed
  • We project our good qualities to people we like, and out bad to people who don’t like
  • Projection is perception
  • Strengths you see in others are your own

Unconscious Blind Spots
  • Ask others who tell you what you weaknesses are, list them and then ask them a month later.

Self-Deception

  • Trying to rescue a woman who you have idolised is a failure

Think Big

  • Think big, more likely to succeed
  • All professionals think all girls want them all the time
  • Expect things to go right, always.
  • Hubris – Overall and not smart confidence

CD 3



Hubris
  • Blind self intelligent humility

Getting in your head
  • Don’t use learning as creative avoidance

Psychology of the Wussy
  • Wussy – Wimp and Pussy together!
  • Avoid – Seeking validation and/or acceptance.  This what a Wussy does.
  • Victim – Don’t take responsibility – Get people to feel sorry for them
  • Nice Guy – Believed he should go out of their way to help in any circumstance and secretly believes their better than anyone

Types of Wussies
  • Yea but she’s different –NOOOOOOOO
  • I want her to like me for me – Goes months without dates
  • I love this one girl – Don’t get obsessed its Wussy.

Getting Leverage - [Exercise]
  • Nice guys sleep alone
  • Use exercise to gain leverage

Hopeless
  • If they’re not good with women they feel it’s something fundamental wrong with them

Pessimistic
  • I now know that I didn’t know
  • When you realise – Attraction isn’t a choice

The Being Stage
  • I am the power
  • There’s enough of what I want everywhere, no need to stride
  • See the chemistry around you

Maximizing Levels [Exercise]
  • Higher levels affect all levels below them
  • Do you believe you’re the very best choice a woman can make?

Tyler’s Beliefs

  • Nothing is real; it’s all in your mind


CD 4



Self-Programming

  • Evaluation = Conscious of consciousness

Mastering Emotions
  • Have an emotional response from an anticipated emotion
  • I didn’t make you feel that way; you choose to feel that way


Cultivating the Pause
  • If you practice controlling the pause between the synapse and the reaction – You could control your emotion
  • During the pause say “I can react however I choose” choose to laugh

Emotional re-framing – (Useful for controlling emotions)
  • Wrap positive emotions around negative emotions
  • Be excited about being depressed


Compound Emotional
  • Excitement about success
  • Stacking positive emotions together
  • Excitement > Confident > grateful

Objectifying Demon
  • When you objectify your demons you destroy its power on you
  • Describe it, pick it apart, notice things about it


Shifting locus of control
  • External locus of control – People who receive their orders from others
  • Inner locus of control – Work on what they want and base on their own person values

Encouraging Independence
  • “Why don’t you go meet some guys or something?”
  • “That guy is checking you out; I think you could get him!”
  • 97% of women need advice to become more independent

Weapons of Influence

  • There is nothing more motivating that soma diminishing item you want
  • Women can adapt to anything instantly – so their more flexible to the men

Commitment and Consistency

  • If you do anything with enough authority you will get away with it
  • Say something with a reason – You will have more chance of it to get in



CD 5



Instant Gratification
  • Live life in the future, so plan for it now!

Path or Purpose
  • Women are very attracted to men who are on their path
  • You have constitution if you’re on your path

Big Questions – (GOOD)

  • Is the Universe a friendly place?
  • Am I a cause or an effect?

Security or Risk
  • You need to actively kill things to leave room for more important things

Play small or Play Big
  • Fail or Learn
  • Eliminate failure forever by learning from it
  • Look at your salary as a supply like a bag of seeds

Keep secrets or give gifts
  • Give it away and more will come
  • Seek first to understand, then to be understood

Back to the path
  • Personal Path to evolution

Gratitude and appreciation
  • Look for gratitude


CD 6



Fear
  • You wouldn’t go to a sports car dealer if you wanted a pickup

Appearances

  • Most guys think when they look at females bodies they would be uncomfortable – They normally like it
  • Women spend all their time in the bathroom to make them look good for us men.  They want you to look at them.
  • Be a man, know what you want – Go to caveman roots to figure out how
  • Never say “Me too”, “I don’t know”
  • Women look for in men – Sense of humour, honesty and respect

Truth
  • Always tell the truth, think out loud.
  • When you see a girl, what attracted you to her?
  • There are fewer men in this world than women

Centre of her Universe

  • Women aren’t the centre of the universe

Bad Beliefs

  • A real man, who has his life sorted – is much rarer than a beautiful woman
  • Beautiful women are everywhere

Real Men

  • He walks around like he owns the entire city
  • Looks at women like he may have seen something he likes and takes a moment to see if that is so
  • Doesn’t live his life to please anyone
  • Women deep down believe that they will never find a real man

Attractive women Vs Real men

  • Men have like a database so we can index every girl we see and we see them from the front, side and rear.  Take mental images and store them.

Time Travel

  • If you were to go back 100,000 years – Walking through a rainforest and you came across a waterfall with a beautiful girl bathing in it.  Could you get her to be attracted to you?
  • Two types of men:
  • She is want you want, you pressure her, she runs, you want more
  • Be what she wants, she pressures you, you run, she wants more

Status and Weakness
  • Everyone strives for status.  Higher status gives better options for mating
  • Realise you don’t need her sexually, you can please yourself
  • “You know what? I Could probably take care of myself better than you could”

Status Hierarchy

  • Conspicuous Consumption – Look at what I’ve got.

Impact of Status

  • Everything you do shows your status
  • Status and attraction is like oxygen and life
  • Higher status then a girl = Worth a go from the girls thinking
  • Lower status than a girl = No chance


CD 7



Status leadership dominance
  • Security is a foundation for high status


Seeing Status
  • Men communicate low status by justifying, allowing things to effect them and using logic
  • Humans are pack animals


The approaches to Status
  • Claim high status – Best
  • Give away status to earn it later – Losing strategy
  • Look towards places where it would be a high status place to be and sit there – Analyse “thanks a low status place to sit”

Status Ranges
  • Go to the at lowest equal status to someone
  • A fish doesn’t know it’s wet – Because it lives in the water

Feminine Assessment
  • Women must test you to figure out if she can trust you
  • She will test you forever to see if you’ve changed
  • Never communicate lower status

Masculine and feminine polarity

  • Strong masculine attracts strong feminine
  • Women aren’t attracted to feminine qualities in men


Feminine Assessment

  • Feminine qualities can be taken from your cloths, cars, furniture anything.


Four Temperaments

  1. Sensing Judger – Traditionalists
  2. Sensing Perceiver – Adventurer – Surfers – Good with women
  3. Intuitive Thinker – Idealists – Talk about the ideal future
  4. Intuitive Feeler – Rationalist – Break everything down
  • Useful to figure out what people are

 

CD 8



Sexual Currency

  • Sexual currency is as real as money


Countermeasures

  • Communicate you have higher power and status
  • Easy to get = No value


Choices

  • Learn to think and behave like you have all the choices in the world
  • Friend = Is friend – Just friends = Friends and no chance to get with her


Three Women

  • Make friends with at least 3 women
  • Walk into the situation like you just want to be friend

Friends and Independence

  • “Hey I’m going out, you should come.  You can buy me some drinks and help me get girls.”

Making friends with masters
  • Make their lives easier
  • Don’t act surprised with your success with women

Honest Signals

  • Easy to see, hard to fake
  • Dominant Posture
  • Slow gesture and movement
  • Leadership
  • More Controlling
  • Strong eye contact

Tell tale giveaways
  • Clingy behaviour
  • Calling to often


CD 9


Bad Logic

  • If you do something nice for a woman, she owes you.
  • If an attractive woman is unhappy she is usually in a relationship.

Evolutionary Psychology
  • Become an expert speaking your language
  • Communication is important become expert in it
  • Learn sales – When you become good with sales you learn it’s not about techniques


Meta Communication

  • Complex Communication


Content

  • It’s not words that is going to attract her
  • Content is distracting



Reverse Rapport

  • Say and do the opposite too what someone may do to try and make them like you – Do it sarcastically
  • Answer her questions with an opposite to what she’s expecting
  • Make fun of things in a serious way


For you or for her

  • Detect whether she is saying something for you or for her self

 

CD 10


Guest Speaker Amber
  • Masculine energy and being on your path creates relaxing energy within a women spontaneously

Touching your purpose
  • If this is the last night of your life – What is important? What do you have to do before you die?

Heart Connection

  • Know why this women is in front of you


Sensitivity
  • Do not treat girls as men


Women and Sex
  • Women love sex
  • Big complain from a woman is that a man is too nice with her

CD 11



Training – [Exercise]
  • You are 10x more sexual to a women when you are this awake

Women on your path

  • Make a woman think about their deep feelings will change those feelings


Feeling her heart
  • Be relaxed like a stoner but seem as though if something was to fall you could catch it immediately

Interview Review
  • Be aware of your imminent death
Technique v Mastery
  • No amount of thinking about it can be better than doing it

Practises
  • Find out your purpose



CD 12



Experience
  • Don’t use learning as an excuse not to go out and try
Curve Balls
  • Life is going to happen

The Gap
  • Humans have ideal making minds

Ideals
  • Your ideal is a gap that can never be filled
  • A  - B Compare where you’ve come from A to B not B to your ideal

Add Five Things
  • Add 3 female attractive friends to your life
  • Get at least 3 guys in your life whose amazing with women
  • Get 3 people who are connected to the social bar life
  • Go on regular travels to holiday destinations

Things to incorporate
  • Become a member of a large gym

Fashion Consultation

  • Have your hair cut by a man not a woman

Getting laid
  • Once you get quantity handled, quality becomes a problem


CD 13


Juxtaposition

  • Use enough and little of another – Balance
  • Strong and Gentle
  • Associated and Disassociated
  • If someone is annoying say “Your begging for attention is almost as appalling as your physical appearance”


One Big Orgasm Fallacy

  • All girls aren’t the same
  • If something doesn’t work on one girl, it may work on anther
  • Emotional decisions are instant and they look 100% true to people


Risk, Probability and Expectancy

  • Risk is the stake; probability is the chance of outcome
  • Every person knows 200 other people


Crunching Numbers

  • 1/666,000,000 chance you will get beat up by talking to a girl
  • To have big reward you must take risks


Always be prepared to meet women

  • Always take a few extra minutes to look in shape
  • Go somewhere alone – Find the busiest place and sit there to prove to yourself no-one cares if you’re there or not.


Sexual Communication

  • Women can be attracted to you without liking you
  • Logic and reason is the enemy


Way to go:

  • Sparking the attraction with flirtations and humour
  • Build sex tension with cocky and funny humour
  • Amplify the attraction by using the 2 steps forward and 1 step back approach
  • Physically Advance – Just lead the girl, you are in control


Guest speaker Mystery

  • We are designed to survive and replicate


Seduction

  • Do not start with seduction; if you start showing interest you are seducing
  • Live with integrity
Comfort
  • Comfort is the beginning phase

Attraction

  • If you see the person may have buyer’s remorse you haven’t give them enough comfort
  • When she is attracted, quality her don’t seduce or show interest because her beauty isn’t enough
  • Takes approximately 7 hours to go from meeting to sex with comfort


CD 14



Nine Phases

  1. Initiating
  2. Female to Male Attract
  3. Male to Female Attract
  4. Comfort 1
  5. Comfort 2
  6. Comfort 3
  7. Arousal (Do not get her aroused in the club/bar)
  8. Last Minute Resistance – Her saying she normally doesn’t do this etc
  9. Sex

Escalating Comfort

  • Building Rapport (Go for the phone number after this)
  • Building Intimacy (Touching)
  • This stage takes 6 hours

Time Bridge
  • Bridge the time you are apart so you continue on from where you left off

Method and Style
  • Initiate with an opener – do a plot line – Convince the group that the target and me aren’t getting on
  • Tell them about me is comfort building

Practising
  • Learn openers

Time constraints

  • If you like one girl from the group ignore her and be friendly to the rest

Approaching Groups

  • Open while still walking
  • When approaching don’t go direct and ask an opinion
  • Wear unique cloths so they have something to show interest in
  • Show you are not a bum

Hooks
  • “What you going on except beauty?”
  • “So how does everyone know each other?”
  • They trust you to be nice to them because you’re not nice to her
  • Need to isolate the girl you like eventually
  • Make her say things to you to indicate interest


A fun game
  • Bait her in to give information about her
  • Reel her in (“No way you’re German”)


Questions and Tea

  • “Have you ever played Questions?”


CD 15




Guest Speaker Marie
  • A lot of girls out there have low self esteem and are looking for a relationship

Strong sense of Self

  • This is me, i like me, you should like me.  If you don’t, i don’t care.

Approaching the Bartender
  • Girls check out shoes, get good shoes

Eliminating Barriers

  • Eliminate as many obstacles as possible like bad cloths, bad skin etc

The more the merrier
  • Keep women in your life to keep the flow going

Just be Friends
  • Girls like dancers and restaurants
  • Pay attention to everyone not just the girl
  • Girls feel safer in groups
  • You can play a role of the boyfriend

On the Phone

  • Call her (the first time) then talk a bit and then say “I’ve got to go” and hang up
  • “You know, i just want to be single now” – Breaking up.
  • Best way to break up with a girl id to be direct and honest


CD 16



Guest Speaker Rick H

  • If you’re sitting there trying to figure out what to say she will know you aren’t yourself

Qualifying
  • If you are not qualifying her she is qualifying you.

Preparation
  • If you are congruent, you can get away with anything
  • Do anything with bough authority and you’ll win
  • Most people don’t have a firm belief of what they are and what their reality is
  • No good deed goes unpunished

No good deed goes unpunished
  • Don’t accept bad behaviour
  • Don’t try to hard
  • Always have a better answer, no matter what

Think ahead

  • If you don’t plan your going to lose
  • Plan as much as you can = Better
  • If you could out battle her in a battle of wits, you got them
  • Don’t let them get away with the tests – They don’t want you to really

Bisexual Women


  • Big problem with men is making a big deal with bisexual women
  • Don’t think it’s a big deal about having sex

Accelerated Dating Program
  • Ask her about how many girls she has been with


CD 17



Approaching Women – (Help for reason not to approach)
  • Don’t put too much important on one outcome
  • Always imagine 99 girls after her (In a line maybe) and behind those 99 girls there’s another 900 girls waiting for you to talk to them
  • Keep wondering whose next

Rejection

  • There is something about being socially rejected which is the same as physical pain
  • The need to stay away from rejection is as deep as staying away from fire

The little biology thing
  • “Aren’t you cute with your little purse”

Ménage-a-Tois – (Talking about Bisexual girls)
  • Girls love their best friend
  • Don’t change your approach from one failure, try at least 10 times.

Reverse Emperors new Cloths
  • Process of not seeing the beautiful exterior (she will be more comfortable)


The first few minutes
  • 99% of the first 10 minutes is about her, not you.
  • Some women are nervous to be with a man
  • “Are you nervous?”


Key Beliefs
  • Always have one default thing to say
  • All upside, no downside
  • You can only learn
  • Now is better than later
  • Say anything is better than nothing
  • 3 second rule – When you use a woman you must approach her within 3 seconds
  • You have something great to offer
  • Just treat them as their first people in the same place as you
  • It helps to know that other women are interested in you
  • “Who lies more? Men or Women?” “Alright female opinion”

Social Value

  • Rapidly diminishing supply of what you want
  • Sex is the ultimate Equaliser
  • Start conversations with women

At the Movies

  • Watch movies:
  • Roger Dodger
  • Gone with the Wind
  • Whipped
  • Erin Brocovich


CD 18



Cell Phones
  • “Hey give me your phone”, call yourself and smile
  • “Tell them to call you back, I’m much more interesting”

Guest Speaker Ben
  • Just say to a girl “Hey we need a picture with you”

Great impressions for a date
  • Show notes to girls in loud nightclubs

Tarot cards
  • www.modernmagic.com

Making a change
  • “Most men don’t know what attraction is”

Belief Systems
  • What you believe becomes your reality
  • You have to have a strong belief system – what the thinker thinks, the prover proves
  • Believe you’re a giant sausage that’s always in demand from women
  • If your intent is for her to be sexually frustrated then rehearse it before you do it

Frames
  • Useful for picking up

Reality Sucking

  • Anything you do to make a woman qualify herself is good
  • Be able to take the spot light
  • Whoever exerts the less energy is in control of the frame and is the prise
  • Don’t think so much
  • Whenever you can get stuff done for you do it
  • In your frame imagine you are James Bond and she’s an extra

CD 19



Stepping into your desire
  • Masculine energy is nothingness
  • If a friends girlfriend comes on to you, link it in your mind to your mother coming on to you and stay away!

Understanding the nothingness
  • Our job as a man is to open up the women to everything
  • Females hate making decisions

Masters
  • Completely recognise the female in you

Persistence
  • Always lean (Keep sharpening the sword)

Portable Wingman
  • Pretend to talk on the phone to gain confidence if you need it

Guest Speaker Mike
  • Take photos of the girl in different emotions such as serious, happy, and sad and then imitate her

Mannerisms
  • Cocky and funny – Make fun of her mannerisms


CD 20



Guest Speaker Tyler
  • Girls can see a lot of things – Men can learn to see
  • Make sure you’re cooler than her/them at all times

Social Proof
  • People will respond to other people
  • Tell a girl she’s making you uncomfortable in a funny way
  • Don’t – talk too quickly, laugh at own jokes, talk to quietly, don’t say “you know”, don’t lean into a girl

Personas
  • Don’t answer questions too fast or grab girls tightly
  • Be natural

Conversational Thread
  • Misinterpret everything bad as a compliment to you
  • Change her mood not her mind


Keep it simple

  • Don’t rely on long sentences or statements, keep it short

Shooter girls

  • Don’t offer too much about yourself too early


Rapport

  • Walking up and telling stories is neutral rapport which gets it going, as well as cocky/funny


Big Breakthroughs

  • “Hey, you got e-mail?” when she says yes, tell her to write it down.  While she’s writing it down say “put down your number as well”



Final Thoughts

  • Design your life with peak experience, just do things everyday
  • Flow states – Complete involvement
  • Adventures – Create a life of adventures
  • Create and plan a life of positive emotions
  • Plan, create and live a life of physical energy such as going to the gym
  • Plan, create and design a life full of mental challenges
  • Get a life full of positive successful people
  • Get a life full of conscious evolution

 



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craig thomas self improvement blog enlightrCraig is a 22-year-old student currently studying psychology at Bournemouth University. He runs a self improvement blog and community filled with useful advice. His main aim is to help people exceed their expectations and reach their true potential.

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