This programme answers your questions and give you the techniques and mindsets to just go out there and get it done.  Wanted to know how to stand? Or never even thought about how you should stand? Or just want an interesting insight into good body language and bad body language? This is where you will get it all straight from David Deangelo's dating mind.

Did you know that from all of the communication only 7% is words and the other 93% is voice tone and body language, this shows how important body language is.

This program can range from someone with basic skills with women all the way up to naturals, since it will still give you insights and useful information.

David Deangelo – Body Language

Disk 1

Mating Dance

• Human mating dance, if you do it incorrectly it can make the girl uneasy

90 day Commitment

• Spend the next 90 days to get it all together

Tough Love

• Seek out more people to give you tough love

Words of the body

• The word “Apple” is a word – You can eat an “apple”
• We have a built in natural communication system
• Women are 10x better with body language than men

• We communicate:

1. 7% by words
2. 35% by voice tone
3. 58% by body language

• If you understand attraction and use body language, you can say anything you like

Objective

• Don’t go for approval
• Only go for attraction
• Dependence is not an attractive quality in men
• Independent, pause – Don’t copy body language

Permission to be cool

• Cool changes over time
• Find out what cool is now, in fashion for example
• Do not alienate people who aren’t cool

What cool is

• This shows the spectrum for “cool”.  Cool is the centre between “old fashioned” and “counter cultured”

Sexual Threat

• Men don’t feel an investment in sex but a women does because the threat of looking after a baby on her own
• SAM = sexually aggressive male

Body Language

• You can’t please everyone and if you are trying you are not getting what you want

Practising High Status

• Project that you are comfortable with yourself
• When greeting, say this in your mind “Hi, I’m high status, I’m comfortable because I’ve known you for awhile”

Leaning

• Don’t lean physically or mentally
• Don’t lean forward, lean back

Approval seeking and approval giving

• Use approval keeping – You want my approval and I’m not giving it

Projecting self-image

• Important that you like yourself
• Be comfortable in social situations

Signals to practise

• Strong secure eye contact
• Dominant, confident posture and walk

Demeanour

• Self-aware – Aware of what you got
• Self-conscious – Nervous, worry about what people think

Human mating sequence

1. Eye contact
2. Verbal contact face/face
3. Hand to arm contact, physical contact
4. Mouth to mouth contact
5. Hand to genital contact
6. Mouth to genital contact
7. Penetration sex

• These are universal as the human mating sequence

Be conscious

• Be conscious of body language until its sub-conscious

Rapport

• If you act like the girl = Wrong
• Useful to know when she is getting rapport with you

Grooming and Dress

• Learn to groom yourself well

Disk 2

Allow her to orient

• Allow her to orient her body to you
• Don’t follow the woman’s body language – Lead and let her follow you

Projection

• Body language can be thought of as projection

Composer

• Keep composed at all times

Eye communication

• Don’t break eye contact first
• If the woman you are looking at has wide pupils it’s because she is taking in more information and is looking at something she likes
• If their eyes smile = genuine laughter

Looking time

• We all understand how long to look in every situation

Eyes

• A woman wants you to look into her eyes and not say anything
• If she is trying to make eye contact with you it’s good

Self-Conscious

• She becomes more self-conscious and unsure when she becomes attracted to you

Posture

• If the women has the power she will be leaned back, raised up etc
• When looking at a girl convey you are the man and you are going to make her do things she won’t want to do but she will like

First words/voice tone

• Practise finding out if women are available
• See is she aligns herself with you, faces you

Touching

• Touching s body language
• Opening a door – Lead her through the door by pushing her low back

Signalling Play

• Get in like “You’re my bratty sister” mode
• Watch what she’s doing with her body language not the words

Physical Protecting

• Walk on the outside of the curb

Physical leading

• Lead her out by her hand, don’t ask
• Pull her towards you if you want a hug
• Physically move her to where you would like her

Stop

• Stop nervous habits
• Stop anything that shows nervousness
• Stop looking down
• Be comfortable, dominant, controlling
• Sexual aggressive males – SAM – Be it

Mystery – (Recommended to listen, he’s good 53 minutes in)

Different stages

• I am a biological machine who only wants to survive and replicate
• 28, 275 days from birth to death on average

Courtship Phases

• Meet

1. Attract her
2. Comfort
3. Mutual Seduction

• Sex

Comfort

• Comfort = Lack of discomfort
• A woman who sees you with other women assumes you have high status

Attraction Switch

• Hands facing up – Not interested

Attraction Stage

• Approach a woman with a sense of humour and smile
• “You look like the life of the party when you smile”
• Within 3 minutes lock yourself in
• Lean back
• Over the shoulder
• Lock in – Give me your hands for a sec
• Time constraint – I can only stay a sec – Body-rocking

Approaching

• Approach a woman in a circle – Don’t walk straight up

Proximity

• Have an interesting item so when they approach you, they have something to say
• You have 3 seconds to approach the girl you like

Neg Theory

• Don’t show IOI’s until she has shown you an IOI first

Disk 3

Kino Escalation [Comfort Stage]

• Comfort stages take 6 hours
• Comfort steps:

• Attraction stage takes 30 minutes
• With French kissing make your tongue lose and flexible
• Wait 30 seconds before you use your tongue
• Use 1 step forward and 2 step back method if uncomfortable

Last minute resistance

• If we have sex or not I’m sticking around
• If she has last minute resistance just before sex just say “I understand” and stop all together if she feels uncomfortable
• www.MysteryMethod.com

Steve and Eric

• The nice guy is going to become extinct

Negative Thought (Good Technique)

• Emotion = Energy and motion

Good Work (Good exercise)

• First thing is to get the girls attention

Q and A

• Being an individual in society

Patty

• What men do wrong:

1. Too bold – Heading straight in
2. Don’t be obvious

• Sensuality – Someone who can tease and not give up anything
• Both feet on the floor, balance weight, hip distance apart – Feel like energy is rooting you and pushes the chest out
• Walk with your ass – Think how you walk and lead from the hips

Craig (Good Exercise)

• Body language and posture makes you feel like a more powerful person
• Everyone has their own style of body language
• Imagine you own the place and walk around powerful

Body language mistakes

• Doesn’t have a strong hand shake
• Don’t move your mouth or lick your lips
• Misuse of eye contact
• Don’t look to other guys to find out how to act
• Best is to hold your drink by your side

Disk 4

Heads up

• Always keep your head up
• Take up a lot of space
• Have your legs around shoulder width apart
• If you don’t know what to do with your hands, try back pockets
• When you walk confidently women will know

Eye contact

• Point with looking “Was that a dirty look you gave me?” “What you going to do, best me up in front of everyone?”
• Catch a woman looking at you – Try a serious nod
• Catch a woman you know looking at you – Try to hide your face

Supercharge your body

• Add body language to your approaches
• If talking to 2 girls say “Alright, who’s the fighter and who’s the lover?”

Patty

• People don’t value what they don’t work for

Sit with a woman

• Remember women prefer to be faced so don’t sit facing away

Physical Comedy

• Draw a line between you and her with your foot and say “Remember that line when we talk”

7 day solution

• Imagine a video camera on you all the time – Imagine that the girl you like is going to watch it

Will

• If you make eye contact and she looks away first, she is easier to approach
• Addressing a group make sure you talk to the one you like last
• Make everything you say have a double meaning
• Talking to a girl “Thanks for coming out tonight”

Stare down

• Try staring at a girl until she says something

Tyler

• Biggest causes of attraction is high value

Emotional Reaction

• We only have an emotional reaction to people with higher value or if your value is challenged

Learn to collaborate

• Don’t lean in
• Slow down
• Don’t walk in like you’re deliberate
• Have fun
• People can tell if you do something for a reaction

Changing your body language

• Be willing to go through a phase where you will be uncomfortable

Thought of women

• Girls don’t want to be perceived to be easy to get

Emotionally Reactive

• When a girl thinks you react emotionally to something you will lose value
• If a girl is approaches by a guy who is having fun she will be attracted
• Internal level – If you are attracted to yourself, she will be attracted to you

A few thoughts

• www.realsocialdynamics.com
• A few guys don’t see themselves as able to succeed with girls
• Be consistent to what you perceive as your identity
• Go out and do approaches = confidence

Training in the gym

• You can go out and train your psychological muscles like you can train in a gym

Take action

• Be yourself and have a good time

You can get the videos directly from David Deangelo at www.doubleyourdating.com.

The Orginal

This video series is currently not available through Amazon. Instead, here are some books which deserve reading which are related to Deangelo's Body Language.

Craig is a 22-year-old student currently studying psychology at Bournemouth University. He runs a self improvement blog and community filled with useful advice. His main aim is to help people exceed their expectations and reach their true potential. If you enjoyed this post, get free updates via RSS or E-mail.

Useful Links

• Attraction Is Not a Choice
  
• Approach A Woman
  
• Types of Personality
  
• Power Sexuality
  
• Body Communication
  
• Free Online Dating For Women
  
• Master Dating

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