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[Video] David Deangelo - Meeting Women online
Written by Craig   
Friday, 21 September 2007 19:07
Having trouble meeting women online free? Or just want to get better at it? Then you really want to have a look at this programme, it gives you insight to a totally new level on the online dating revolution, stay ahead of the game.

This programme answers your questions and give you the techniques and mindsets to just go out there and get it done. What ever you want out of meeting women online this program helps you with it, if you want to make friends with cool women, thats fine.  If you are looking for a wife online, that's fine too.

This programme can range from someone with basic skills to naturals, since it will still give you insights and useful information.

 

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David Deangelo - Meeting Women Online

 

Disk 1


Online Dating

  • Internet is good because it’s slow down
  • Figure out what you want, outcome of online dating – are you doing it to avoid the real world?
  • Don’t let the Internet replace reality
Biggest Learning’s
  • Use ideas and plan for them
  • Chatting with women is good practise
  • Test Ideas
  • Do it anytime
  • Take each step as soon as possible e.g. Internet to phone to meet
  • Very attractive single women are online
The rules
  • Slightly different rules online than in the world
  • If you don’t see attraction – End it
  • Don’t get addicted
  • Don’t do what everyone else is doing
  • Key is to get attraction and differentiate yourself
Time Wasters
  • Meeting women too far away
  • Inaccurate pictures and descriptions
  • Some percentage of the world is crazy
Escalation
  • Be prepared to walk away from anyone if it isn’t escalating
  • Escalate from e-mail to phone
Painting vs. Photo
  • Difference between a painting and a photo is that a photo is what is there and the right perspective (meeting people in the world) and painting is where you decide where the perspective is (meeting people online)
  • Have fun on unrealistically high standards
  • “No crazy women please”
  • “It was sarcasm, would you chill out and get with the show”
  • “Type faster”
Tension with text
  • Continue to test – Get past her loser filters, sexual tension and then get her on the phone, then meet in real life.
  • Don’t convert to wuss mode
  • Communicating with poetry takes a lot more skill than not
  • Condense a lot of meaning into a few words
  • If you see her online don’t jump to respond, wait t least 5-10 minutes
  • Dial up attraction by not doing anything
Sparking Chemistry
  • Assume the role of a valuable person and treat her as a wussy and question her motives
  • Ask her why she is picking up guys on the Internet “Hey wait a minute, what’s wrong with you?”
  • Look for anything to make fun of
  • Find reasons to disqualify her
  • What you don’t say is often more important than what you do – Don’t comment a picture, if you do comment, make sure it’s about what you find wrong with it
  • Give her a funny nickname like a little sister type nickname as soon as possible
  • Act afraid of her traits like “neat freak”
  • Being just a friend is powerful
  • Don’t give up something if it doesn’t work
  • Get picture insurance – As for recent only photos and ask if anything has changed etc
  • If you don’t put your photo up it’s a definite fail
  • Men who are saying their looking for relationships do better than saying one night stands
  • Feature your strengths, now your weaknesses

Disk 2


Observation
  • Take words out of her profile and use it as the subject
Fatal Flaw
  • Women are in fatal flaw mode when looking at profiles
  • Fatal laws include – low self-esteem, low status etc
  • Don’t convey relationship problems
  • Make sure your profile has many small shining objects as possible
  • Inject some amount of adventure into everything you say
  • Say you have high ambitions in life and you always get what you want
  • “Man of Adventure” Screen name
  • “I’m the one, your mother warned you about”
  • Profile that communicates “I’m cool and I don’t need anything” and “If you’re fun and you think you can keep me entertained, then sign up for the challenge”
  • Ask women got help when making profiles
  • Purpose of the profile? What is it?
How women read profiles
  • What’s the 20% of the profile that makes up for the other 90%?
  • Make sure your first picture is very good
  • When a woman reads your profile, she is alone – same as e-mail
  • Set yourself as a selective, prise, goal setting challenge
  • If you can communicate, “I know what you want and I always get it” = Attractive
  • Communicate “I have a great life and a special type of woman could make it a little better”
  • Being with me is the best thing and if she spends time with you it will be an advantage to her
Photographs
  • Get a very good picture
  • Communicate that you are alive since most people live boring lives
  • Talk don’t write
  • Make fun of dumb asses
  • If you are open to a relationship talk about it casually “Enjoying my life and it would be nice to have another special someone to enjoy it with me”
  • Communicate you are a person that a girl can be happy with in a long term relationship
  • “I have a great relationship with my mother”
Spice it up
  • “I’m a self-improvement freak, deal with it”
  • Introduce on occasional random thing like when talking to girl say “My computer doesn’t want to talk to you”
  • If a woman is trying to explain, she is trying to explain because she ahs low self-esteem
  • Don’t say sorry or explain yourself
  • Anything she wants from you, communicate that you want 10x back in return, expect it.
Style
  • Don’t do anything logical
  • Be a bad boy in the profile, be an asshole
Contact Her
  • Seem like you’re not thinking about it too hard
  • Response – Bust them on something
  • “You seem like a nice guy” say “No, I’m a selfish prick”
  • Never take anything back
Take it Offline
  • “Time to take it offline”
  • More she talks to you, more she has invested in you.  So listen and allow her to talk
  • Look up for information on the “cube” test
  • Show body language like you’re not so sure about her
The Cube (Look up information on this or watch at 110min)


Disk 3


Dumbass Prevention
  • Get a separate e-mail for online dating
  • Ask a lot of direct questions
  • Ask for recent pictures and ask if anything has changed
  • If your guy says she is crazy, walk away
  • Ask about her relationship status
  • Don’t be negative, apologetic or criticise, condemn or complain
  • Don’t complain about the opposite sex
  • Don’t talk about how uncomfortable you are
  • Demonstrate intelligence without bragging
  • Do ask women what they like about your profile
  • If you see a profile you like don’t give physical compliments, don’t give gifts, don’t say you 2 are perfect together
Do communicate
  • Total comfort with yourself
  • It won’t hurt you if don’t care
  • You are busy and are having fun at life
  • Understand a lot of guys needs
  • You are a regular person
  • “Tired of talking to you on here at 1/10 the speed, so let’s get on the phone like regular people”
  • If she asks you “How old are you?” you say “How much you weigh?”
  • Import what works online into the real world
Richard
  • “You and I are close... but not a match.  I just wanted to give you props for your profile”
  • You can’t be all things to all people
  • More rejection you get, the more success is on its way
Brent
  • When replying to a profile – You are giving them your power.  Make sure that the first e-mail sets the standards and brings the power to your side
Q and A
  • Don’t matter how strong they come off on the Internet, they still want security
  • You’ll gain points for being yourself
  • Always be a little late
Chet’s Pics
  • If you get them laughing, you’re in

Disk 4

 

  • All girls determine how good the relationship will be by how good you are in a relationship with your mother
  • Women like seeing photos of you and your mother and also pets
  • More things you have ion the photo the more you think about it
Transition
  • Have a mindset if “You are going to give this woman a favour”
Stories
  • When writing e-mails have a habit of writing stories
  • Tell it as you are the prise
  • Learn to believe women are lying when they say they don’t want things to go fast
  • Act like their a normal person
Woman
  • When you are online dating you have 2 seconds to make a first impression
  • First impression is determined by photo, headline and user ID
  • Picture is the most important thing, have no glasses or hats on and look straight at the camera
  • Only put pictures up that are good
  • Headline
  • Write a headline so the woman sees herself in it
  • Headline is critical
  • You want to have the woman feel as if she could be in your life
  • “I’m a match to you, or better”
  • Look at your headline like everyone else would
  • Keep the profile short
  • Try writing a story to start off
  • Have an invitation at the end to tell her to do something
  • Don’t “wink” or “flirt” etc
  • Communicate that you understand the “guy, girl” thing
Jorge
  • Don’t call them “girls” call them “women”
  • Lean forward a bit when taking the photo


Disk 5


Confidence
  • “Competence is confidence”, “Confidence is the lack of insecurity”
  • Mystery = Intrigue = Interest
  • Create mystery so she wants to know more, so she is thinking about you which create interest in you
  • You get better responses wearing a suit in the photo
  • Way to set up a message to her –
  1. Intro
  2. Bust on her profile/photo
  3. Talk about you
  4. Her profile
  5. Call to action
  • Make your subject line a cliff-hanger
  • To qualify her, ask her questions like “what do your friends say about you?”
  • “This member might be interested in you”
  • No woman wants to be conceived as average they want to be sexy
  • “You’re meant to play hard to get after we meet!”
  • They are always nervous
  • Men are direct and women are indirect
Artist Trick
  • When you’re out with a woman you don’t have to impress her, she is already out with you.  Have fun and try not to screw up
  • Treat her like a friend who you’ve know for 20 years
  • It’s a numbers game
  • Day that gets the most responses is Sunday
  • www.insiderinternetdating.com
Topless
  • Women don’t like seeing men with their tops off

 

You can get the videos directly from David Deangelo at www.doubleyourdating.com.

 

The Orginal

This video series is currently not available through Amazon. Instead, here are some books which deserve reading which are related to Deangelo's Meeting Women Online.






craig thomas self improvement blog enlightrCraig is a 22-year-old student currently studying psychology at Bournemouth University. He runs a self improvement blog and community filled with useful advice. His main aim is to help people exceed their expectations and reach their true potential.

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