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This is again a fantastic programme from David Deangelo and guests which is the cutting edge in body communication.
This sets the mark on sexual communication with very interesting concepts and diagrams. If you've ever wondered what turns on women? What traits are naturally attractive to women? Then you'd love this programme.
"How would you move with a woman if oil is dripping down both your bodies?"
How would you? Do you understand that line? If not, reading this summary will be highly beneficial to your entire life since the purpose of this programme is to educate you in sexual body communication and language.
David Deangelo – Sexual Communication
History, theory, background
- Can use your words, body language and voice tone alone to make a woman feel attraction
- Try – When in a bar or club, go up to every woman and “tink” your glass up against theirs
- Approach within 3 seconds after eye contact
Their masters of sexual communication
- Sexual communication must start at the beginning because it won’t develop over time
The elusive obvious
- If you learn how to talk like this women get sexually attracted to you whether they intended to or not
Attraction Vs Affection
- Learn to communicate through the layers to the inner stuff
Human Biology
- 500 million sperm – 1% are egg getters and the other 99% are warrior sperm
- 10% of people fathers aren’t their real fathers, and they don’t know
- If a woman has an orgasm during sex they are more likely to get pregnant
Instinctive courtship
- All animals know how to court without pick-up lines etc. None have learned, they are born with them
- All humans are born with knowledge and instincts in sex, courtship etc
- A lot of men don’t even know what their sexual orientation is
- “Jeffery Miller – The Mating Mind” – Good book
- We use our brains as a mating aid, for art, poems etc
The 4 step process of sexual communication
- Rules of communication are reversed and turned on their head –
- Sparking attraction or chemistry
- Building sexual tension
- Amplifying the attraction
- Physically advancing
- Concepts and Rules
- Women are attracted to certain traits naturally
Masculine Qualities
- Leader – Doesn’t look to others for approval, moves forward
- Slight over-confidence – Funny, smooth and charming
- Lack of insecurity – Confidence
- Dominance – Women are naturally attracted to this
- Control – Doesn’t mean controlling
- Selfishness of a specific kind – Put yourself first before helping others
- Composure in the face with whatever happens
- Being unapologetic – Don’t apologies for anything
- Being crass in a funny way, over exaggerate etc “I am the man”
- Not accepting 2nd class behaviour or treatment from her or anyone, just say “Stop, I don’t accept this behaviour from people”
- Be overly selective
- Be territorial – Tell her where to sit etc
- In control of self and sex-drive, but just barely
- Tell others what to do, not in a mean or disrespectful way
- Strong eye contact
Women and testing
- One of the most powerful topics for men
- They test because they need to find out what their dealing with, unconsciously, better looking women are better
The fascinating why
- Women who are good looking have more chances with men, so they have to test
- Testing is a positive thing, they can be really funny!
- Women will always test you, so get over it
- Always be ready for tests and you won’t get tested as much
- “Your suck a jerk”, “Ohh.. . You love me so much! Come over here and give me a hug”
Rules of Thumb
- Women interpret everything, always ask “What does that mean” so communicate subtlety
Attitudes
- There is no downside, not losing anything
- I am indifferent to the outcome, not affected
- I am a catch and time with me is rare and valuable
- She wants me, but I’m going to tease her to see how much
- She is going to prove to me she is above average, even though I suspect she is
Strategies
- Women know how to make men uncomfortable
- Steal their frame, they may act upset
- Start being –
- Be a challenge, play hard to get. E.g. talk to her for a few minutes then walk away
- Make her want what you have, give a little, tease her , take it away and don’t make it easy for her to get it back
- Be mysterious (never answer questions about job, education etc)
- Steal her frame and exaggerate it a bit more
Double your dating techniques
- Never give a woman a direct answer unless it’s “no”
- Answer questions with questions or something that implicates her or makes her commit to something
- If she complains she doesn’t like something, turn it up and give it back, in a playful way
- Don’t give her exactly what she asks for
- Use “Let’s be friends” – takes her frame
- Be unpredictable, keep changing up your patterns
- 2 steps forward, 1 step back
- If a woman tests you always raise and call her bet
- Don’t be a wuss, don’t try to impress or act apologetic
- Have a strong composure, when you life your chest it lifts everything
- Take control of the situation
- Being picky about what can be in your life
- Getting rid of and deal with insecurity
- Reframe a test as she likes you
Failure
- Successful people fail a lot and look at it as steps to success
- Whatever you do, you either win or learn
- If a woman leaves anything over your house, put them all in a bowl and when she asks “what is this?” “It’s the bowl”
Sexual Tension
- Women know exactly what sexual tension is
- Men think sexual tension is based on looks since that’s how they look at it
- You have to frame and set up the relationship correctly from the beginning
Flirting
- Women know what flirting is
- Flirting is just part of the fun, it isn’t everything
- The longer it takes you to set the correct frame, the less chance you have of ever setting it with that particular woman
- Flirting = playing
- When you’re dealing with woman, flirting is like play fighting
- Flirt from the very start
- “This relationship is not working”
- “Let’s get married, “Can you support both of us?” “I’ve always wanted to be a house husband!” “I want to end this relationship!”
Non-verbal Flirting
- If a woman looks at you and raises her eyebrow, look back at her and lift your eyebrows but exaggerate it
- All girls want fun
- Keep yourself excited
- Story telling – have emotions and impacts
- Could use stuff to hit them playfully with
5 ways to start the chemistry by flirting
- Giving her a hard time about something in a flirty way
- Mention how the relationship doesn’t seem to be working
- Faking despair at something she is doing, shaking head, sign
- Overly dramatic complaints about her job, performance, behaviour etc
- Behave like you could take her or leave her and she’s just a good friend
Cocky and funny
- Use cocky balanced with funny
- Too much cocky makes you look arrogant and insecure
- Too much funny makes you look goofy
- Ask a woman is she’s rich or famous and if she says no say “hmmm well, you’ve messed up your chances and I’m not interested anymore!”
- If she does an “I can’t believe you said that” look, then turn it up! Don’t say sorry
- When a woman compliments you, “woah, that compliment isn’t going to make me go home with you” “what you think I am? Cheap!”
- Interpret everything she says as sexual and blame her for it
- Don’t give your power away
- If you do something that she doesn’t like don’t let her blame you, first accept it as her problem for not liking it
Patty
- Talk less and be comfortable touching yourself in public more
- If you teach a woman something that she didn’t know about herself that can give her pleasure is good
- Be comfortable touching a woman’s neck and shoulders
- How would you move with a woman if oil is dripping down both your bodies
Tyler
- When you feel uncomfortable you feel needy
- Always convey that it isn’t a big deal, don’t be emotionally invested, since woman will know
- Certain behaviour patterns attract them. When you do, don’t stop it because you will lose her attraction
- You are the big brother and she is the little bratty sister
- Tease her by not answering her questions
- Little powerpuff girl
- If she asks questions, if they’re not helpful, ignore it
- Teasing girls on mannerisms, like when they look to other females for validation
- Everything from your style, walking etc is rhythm and they got to be congruence (when your actions follow your beliefs)
- When someone can see your trying to communicate to get something it shows insecurity
- When your generating a good vibe it emotionally charges them
- If she is there with you, she likes you, doesn’t matter if she backs of a kiss
- Having the knowledge you can sub-communicate qualities about yourself gives you power in the situation
- If your frame is strong enough, you can get away with anything
Getting physical
- 93% of communication is voice tone and body language
- Eye contact can tell if you are insecure or confident
- Voice tone = deep voice, speak slower. Deliberate, articulate voices are great with woman
- Men are expected to take the risk in everything
- Most men fail or are rejected by women because the man shows he is trying to get something from her
Anticipation
- A person will only do something that they have first seen them doing in their mind
- Wanting to be liked can get in your way
Men usually create all the resistance without realising it
- When she is turned on enough, she will progress
More forward comfortable
- Know the steps and what is next and move forward comfortable and confidently
Women resistance
- Resistance is occurs when she wants a different pace to the man
The Orginal
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 Craig is a 22-year-old student currently studying psychology at Bournemouth University. He runs a self improvement blog and community filled with useful advice. His main aim is to help people exceed their expectations and reach their true potential.
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