5 Ways to Stop Second Guessing Yourself

1. Test them against your values.  When faced with a tricky decision it's often a good idea to line up your choices and ask "Which one of these most honours the things that mean the most to me?"
2. Trust your gut. Look at what your intuition tells you is the 'right' decision for you. Forget about all the "What if's".
3. It just doesn't matter. Ask yourself this question – if your future happiness wasn't dependent on your decision (and it isn't, by the way), which way would you go?
4. Have enough information. Go and get the facts before you make a complex decision. When you feel yourself pursuing every fact or every piece of information before you make a decision, stop yourself. Ask "What do I really need to know to make this decision?"
5. Respect your doubts. We all naturally shy away from change. Your doubts can help you prepare for change and get ready for what could happen.