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I suggest if you haven’t already to check out the other articles that were written leading up to this titled, ‘Female Psychology – An Introduction’ and ‘Female Psychology – Evolutionary Biology for Women’. If you don’t, you may not be able to keep up with what I will be talking about here.

The aim of this article is to teach you the attributes that women evolutionary desire from men. The main attributes are wealth and status, if you had read the previous article on evolutionary biology for women you’d know that. So firstly I’d like to recap a little on the previous article by giving you the list again.

As promised here is the list again as a recap from the previous article. The foundations were covered in the previous article so I won’t touch on them, since today is all about the attributes of status and wealth.

Foundations –

• Health
  
• Social Intuition
  
• Humour
  

Attributes –

• Status
  
• Wealth
  

Congruence –

• Pre-selected
  
• Challenging
  
• Confident

Female Psychology - Attributes

I like to think of it this way, the foundations give you the ticket to enter the game and the attributes give you the ticket to win the game. You need both to win. The main point of the attributes is that they are external things. They aren’t internal like health, or a sense of humour. This means the attributes are a representation of what you have, rather than who you are.

From an evolution point of view, everything you can have externally that attracts women falls into either status or wealth. This doesn’t make women ‘gold-digger’s’ but this does explain why gold-digger’s exist. Women have a very good reason to want these attributes and I’m going to cover them both in great detail, so read on.

Status

Status, quite simply is associated with power and the power you have. The more power you have in a situation, the more status you will be given by everyone around you. Status is desirable because it means the man has power. Power is important because it gives the man extra rights to do certain things, like the ability to do something or do nothing, or the ability to hurt or help others.

The extra abilities such as hurt or help thousands of years ago were only associated with the major power players such as the chiefs of the tribe. If a woman was to get with the chief of the tribe her children will have the best possible chance of survival and reproduction. So this indicated why women would want status and power and evolutionarily desire these attributes.

Also, non-evolutionary terms, status still play a big part as a desirable attribute. A woman who is with a man who has high status will enjoy a much better life in terms of interest and excitement compared to what she’d have with a low status man.

Also a very important note to point out is that status is relative. A professor will have a high status to his students, but if he was at a fashion show, he would have much less status. This tends to answer why women tend to sleep with their boss a lot. Even the owner of a small restaurant has status and power inside the restaurant even if he has none outside it, so women who work for him with have an increased attraction for him.

Implications of this Characteristic

• Relative status is far easier to obtain that complete status. If you got to a certain club often then get to know all the staff and bouncers. Even if no-one knows you outside the club, inside you will be a celebrity.
  
• Status is often demonstrated relative to other men. Seek opportunities to display status in a non-confrontational way over other men, such as teaching them something or expressing dominant body language.
  
• This one is important, so read it! Act how high status men act. High status men do not tend to be envious, they do not lower the success of other men, especially high stats men, they do not tend to be needy, they do not need to convince other people of their status and they do not worry what others think of them.

If you want to be a high status man, follow these small hints and you’re on your way. A much more detailed approach would be to read related materials from the dating section such as David Deangelo - Advanced Series, David Deangelo - Mastery Series and other David Deangelo products.

Wealth

Wealth doesn’t always mean money. It means having access to resources. Thousands of years ago, a man would be seen has wealthy if he has a hidden store of food. But, today generally it is scoped by money.

Financial security is critical to evolutionary success. Men are predisposed to accumulate wealth, even if they already have plenty. Men tend to feel uncomfortable if they do not have financial security, so they are driven to get it. Women desire this attribute because the more resources the man has access to the greater chances that their children will have greater access to resources for them to thrive.

This is important to know, to a woman, being on the road to wealth is the same as having wealth. Most women would see a medical student’s prospect to be as good as an already established doctor.

This is a critical piece of advice, so do not skip. You MUST NOT resent women for this. This is built into them from generations of evolution. They are driving to seek wealthy men normally not by choice. So do not resent them for this attribute.

Implications of this Characteristic

• Men have been tempting women with wealth since the beginning of time. Displays of wealth should be subtle and normal, nothing over the top.
  
• Some displays of wealth, such as expensive sports cars can be a great turn off since they are normally considers to be ‘compensating’ for an insecurity they have.
  
• Women look for consistency with wealth. A man at a VIP table wearing bad clothes isn’t seen as a man with wealth, rather a man with a spending problem.
  
• Don’t worry if you are not rich; just don’t look like you’re struggling. Never talk about financial difficulties or borrowing money and don’t make a big deal about expenses.
  
• If you don’t have wealth, the next big thing is the potential for it. Show you have a plan, and you are following that plan.

With these two attributes you will show –

• You live an exciting life that she can share
  
• You can provide for yourself, her and children

Now that you’ve covered the foundations and attributes you’ve covered the majority of characteristics from an evolutionary standpoint. But still, this does not mean you will attract every desirable woman. People can go against their own evolutionary programming with their own choices, so some women won’t go for these attributes, so remember that.

The next article which will be posted tomorrow will cover the final set of characteristics of female psychology they are called congruence. They are what a woman looks for to prove all the other foundations and attributes. As you’ve read earlier, they are pre-selection, confidence and challenging. So get ready for the next article to get your brain around why they are important, and what they mean.

If you enjoyed reading this article I’d suggest you read related articles such as 13 Most Common Female Courtship Gestures, Is she a Chest, Legs or Bum gal?, 6 Fundamentals to be a Master Pick-up Artist and The World's Best Chat-up Line.

Books I Recommend

These books will hold a lot more information than this article supplies alone. My favourites are The Body Language Bible which is an extremely good book if you want to quickly understand women through their body language, and the Secrets of Sexual Body Language which will reveal to you exactly why she is into you. The other books I've listed are also extremely good in this area and I highly recommend them.

Craig is a 22-year-old student currently studying psychology at Bournemouth University. He runs a self improvement blog and community filled with useful advice. His main aim is to help people exceed their expectations and reach their true potential. If you enjoyed this post, get free updates via RSS or E-mail.

Useful Links

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• Attraction isn't a Choice
  
• Bad Body Language
  
• Power Sexuality

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Female Psychology - Attributes

• I like to think of it this way, the foundations give you the ticket to enter the game and the attributes give you the ticket to win the game. You need both to win
• The main point of the attributes is that they are external things. They aren’t internal like health, or a sense of humour
• This means the attributes are a representation of what you have, rather than who you are
• From an evolution point of view, everything you can have externally that attracts women falls into either status or wealth.

Status

• Status, quite simply is associated with power and the power you have. The more power you have in a situation, the more status you will be given by everyone around you
• The extra abilities such as hurt or help thousands of years ago were only associated with the major power players such as the chiefs of the tribe
• Also a very important note to point out is that status is relative. A professor will have a high status to his students, but if he was at a fashion show, he would have much less status.

Implications of this Characteristic

• Relative status is far easier to obtain that complete status. If you got to a certain club often then get to know all the staff and bouncers. Even if no-one knows you outside the club, inside you will be a celebrity.
  
• Status is often demonstrated relative to other men. Seek opportunities to display status in a non-confrontational way over other men, such as teaching them something or expressing dominant body language.
  
• This one is important, so read it! Act how high status men act. High status men do not tend to be envious, they do not lower the success of other men, especially high stats men, they do not tend to be needy, they do not need to convince other people of their status and they do not worry what others think of them.

Wealth

• Wealth doesn’t always mean money. It means having access to resources. Thousands of years ago, a man would be seen has wealthy if he has a hidden store of food. But, today generally it is scoped by money
• Men are predisposed to accumulate wealth, even if they already have plenty
• This is important to know, to a woman, being on the road to wealth is the same as having wealth. Most women would see a medical student’s prospect to be as good as an already established doctor
• You MUST NOT resent women for this. This is built into them from generations of evolution. They are driving to seek wealthy men normally not by choice. So do not resent them for this attribute.

Implications of this Characteristic

• Men have been tempting women with wealth since the beginning of time. Displays of wealth should be subtle and normal, nothing over the top.
  
• Some displays of wealth, such as expensive sports cars can be a great turn off since they are normally considers to be ‘compensating’ for an insecurity they have.
  
• Women look for consistency with wealth. A man at a VIP table wearing bad clothes isn’t seen as a man with wealth, rather a man with a spending problem.
  
• Don’t worry if you are not rich; just don’t look like you’re struggling. Never talk about financial difficulties or borrowing money and don’t make a big deal about expenses.
  
• If you don’t have wealth, the next big thing is the potential for it. Show you have a plan, and you are following that plan.

With these two attributes you will show –

• You live an exciting life that she can share
  
• You can provide for yourself, her and children

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